.But what Astrid doesn't understand however is a reality that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has 2 children-- can confirm: The simple fact that your partnership with your moms and dads improvements as well as advances as you each get older, as well as perhaps for the better. "Your world centers around [your little ones] when they are actually babies [as well as] it's a lot job however beautiful," O'Hara says. "Eventually, you definitely skip that, because after that you can not receive them to perform everything you desire all of them to accomplish, given that they start creating their personal thoughts, their own point of views." As well as ultimately, you find yourself in the spot O'Hara, whose sons are in their 20s and 30s, discovers herself right now, able to pick up from her kids. "They're only such trendy younger individuals," she states. "I am actually certainly not their friend, however I enjoy having chats with all of them and also understanding just how they think of life.".